Question For The Guys: Why facials?

[Ms Naughty]

OK, since Stu has got everyone delving into personal fetishes, I want to ask the guys on the board to help me understand something.

What is the deal with facials?

I don't find them sexy and and am sick to death of the fact that it's now the standard way that most straight porn ends a scene. That's my personal bias.

But what I'm curious about is this: how many guys actually like facials? Is it a common thing?

And what is it about a facial that you find sexy? Why is a facial hot? Is it hot only in porn? If so, why?

The reason I'm asking is this: I've read numerous discussions online where women say that guys are increasingly assuming that sex ends with a facial. Is porn changing the way men want to have sex?

I want to write an article or blog post on this at some point, but I need to hear from real guys about it. I don't want to go all Naomi Wolf and start talking about "what men think" without actually asking them.

[Cleo]

I don't get them either.

Not really sure if I find them or the spitting more disgusting.

My ex-neighbor found the spitting to be really sexy and FoxyAngel gets all excited over cum shots but I have never gotten a reason for why this is so from either of them.

[Tommy]

well.....ynot facials

I mean ya gotta do something with the stuff and shooting it on a pretty face is better then wiping it off my hands

its a movie and there has to be some sort of big ending.
unloading in a condom and flushing the condom just....isnt a good ending

you guys do understand that what you see on tv isnt real right ??

[Bill]

I always figured it was an artifact of production and the two-dimensionality of photos and videos.

So, pretty much like Tommy said.

Now, fake facials and fakes cum is really kind of lame. And irritating.

[Maj. Stress]

Originally Posted by grandmascrotum

The reason I'm asking is this: I've read numerous discussions online where women say that guys are increasingly assuming that sex ends with a facial. Is porn changing the way men want to have sex?

It would be interesting if there were some demographics available on this. Age, income level, education level of the guys that actually think that sex ends with a facial. I think that would explain a lot. Then of course there is the domination/humiliation aspect as well.

[Ms Naughty]

LOL Tommy... that's part of what's got me curious. I know it's not real, but do other people? There are anecdotal stories about younger guys thinking that sex normally ends with a facial, so they're getting their info from porn. And I would have thought that, ideally, a guy having sex with a woman would want to come inside her.

While I get the idea that a facial can be the result of the need to be "visual" in a porn production, that doesn't explain the overwhelming popularity of the facial as a niche. I guess I'm talking about facials as a sexual practice. What is it about a facial that gets people off?

[SirMoby]

I think it's nasty. I don't want to see my cum and I certainly don't want to see some other guy's cum. I've always felt that it was one of two things. Either the men watching have some anger towards women or they're bisexual and seeing another man's cum excites them.

Personally I don't enjoy seeing a man's face or his cum.

[NY Jester]

I think its a "taboo" for most not in porn..so it may be an excitment factor..I personally have only done it once and that was to "just do it"..as the saying goes Ill try almost anything once..twice if I like it..well Ive only done it once so...

[SheepGuy]

I gotta agree with Sir Moby, I truly enjoy receiving a blowjob, but watching someone else get one does nothing for me.
Guys are ugly, their cocks are even uglier, why would I want to watch?
Besides that, watching a hot babe swallow my load is far more satisfying than watching her wear it.
I think cumshots and facials are maybe some sort of ego thing, but when I'm having good sex I almost cease to exist as a separate person, that might sound fucked, but when it's really good, that's the way it is for me, and when I'm sucked dry, I fucking love it.

[Greenguy]

Originally Posted by SirMoby

I think it's nasty. I don't want to see my cum and I certainly don't want to see some other guy's cum. I've always felt that it was one of two things. Either the men watching have some anger towards women or they're bisexual and seeing another man's cum excites them...

You must love those late night movies on Cinemax - no cock, no cum, just boobies & grinding

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I personally LOVE cumshots - face, tits, stomach, ass, pussy, feet, etc.

I don't know why I like cumshots. I'm not gay, I'm not bi, I have no anger towards women...I just like cumshots

I will say that I don't like when the woman doesn't like it - like if she says "not on my face" and the guy blows a load on her face. It has to be a mutual enjoyment thing.

PS - I also have no idea why I like puffy nipples, big pussy lips, bbw porn, teen lesbian anal or redheads - I just do!

PSS - maybe the redhead thing has to do with me being a redhead

[RedCherry]

I really don't get this either, and it is good to hear what guys think. I did an AVS site for facials, just because I had so many pics of it because there are some at the end of every set, but can't seem to sell it...probably because I just don't get it.

I'd rather swallow after a blowjob or have a guy come inside me....that whole blow your wad on my face makes me gag, lol.

[Ramster]

I've always like facials. Giving, watching, whatever. Like Greenguy said I don't think it's a demeaning thing at all, or hate towards the woman you're with. Some woman find it erotic to take a facial from their man just like swallowing too I guess.

And I cannot explain why I like them I just do. It's a "gut feeling" like most things, either you like them or you do not.

[tickler]

Personally I don't like to pull out just as I'm about to cum. Really seems cut the pleasure levels.|confused|

On the other hand there have been a few females I've been with who love to get sprayed. They seem to like rubbing it in like expensive body lotion.

Finally there have been a couple of girls that didn't want me to come inside, because they were not on the pill, and were trying to get pregnant with their boyfriends.

[JustRobert]

I do not like it. I have seen enough where you can tell the model does not like it, body language and expressions, prior to getting it. So it is a large turn off for me.

I understand there needs to be a money shot but maybe allowing the model to say where she wants it would be better.

Personally I want to see the woman enjoying herself.

[HowlingWulf]

I've always thought some guys like facials because it was another way of empowerment, of dominance over the woman, but who knows it's open to interpretation.

[docholly]

I always thought people did facial shots (faked or real) in porn because it was impossible to see the chick swallowing the cum and this way the set or video has proof of a happy ending.

and in real life, if guys are wanting facials rather than shooting the load down their woman's throat, either they watch waaaay too much porn OR she needs to go to the Monica Lewinski School of BJs.

[LeRoy]

Yah the whole facial thing is kinda disgusting. My content provider likes em though. He has a pretty big load so its kinda funny to see the reaction on the girls face.

The wifey thinks It's a waste to go anywhere but inside her I have to agree. IMO It feels better

[stuveltje]

Stu<--- just asked her hubby (while he was eating diner...heay why do you like cumshots on the face and all?....he just went...heay i am eating, i said who cares i am reading board, i like to know now ), because yes he like those, tits, pussy, ass, belly ,tits, face , mouth cumshots too and i dont have a problem with it either, i think its horny.
His answer is: It has nothing to do for him with having the power or whatever, he said, its the way you see you cum getting on a horny beautiful face. its all about the expression the womans face has and seeing all............now for me as a woman, i still think its a "having the power" issue and i dont have a problem with that but heay i am not a guy! ( i am oke with all as long he wont shoot me in the eye, that fucking hurts and i dont like that one and i wont go there)maybe i can compair it the same when a woman is on top of a guy, on that point she deside when a guy comes, he will have no controle anymore, same as a guy on top he controles all, thats also when having a facial, he deside when he does that and not the woman (this is a woman thinking)

[stuveltje]

Originally Posted by Greenie

You must love those late night movies on Cinemax - no cock, no cum, just boobies & grinding

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I personally LOVE cumshots - face, tits, stomach, ass, pussy, feet, etc.

I don't know why I like cumshots. I'm not gay, I'm not bi, I have no anger towards women...I just like cumshots

I will say that I don't like when the woman doesn't like it - like if she says "not on my face" and the guy blows a load on her face. It has to be a mutual enjoyment thing.

PS - I also have no idea why I like puffy nipples, big pussy lips, bbw porn, teen lesbian anal or redheads - I just do!

PSS - maybe the redhead thing has to do with me being a redhead

good now i know your fetish!

[stuveltje]

we can easy talk about porn and think most are liking all, but i know exactly what my girlfriends like or not like, you will be surprised in what way(if you asked around) people have sex for example, one of my best girlfriend will have sex with her hubby when ever he wants even she dont want to, she like to pleasure him, i am that way, if i dont want too then i wont have sex, i have to have pleasure too,so i wont please a guy when he wants...for real, then an other girlfriend...she does suck her hubbies dick, but she dont want him to come in her mouth, so i asked her, how do you fix that then, she told me she will get a paper towel and he will tell her when he comes so she can ut the paper thing on his dick, so he will not come in her mouth...yea thats very horny...NOT..........thinking that all will do everthing when having sex isnt right, it did surprised me when i heard these stories, but it is true, and easy to think its true, because thats why those porn surfers sign in to paysites to see the things they cant have, the same thing why married guys go to hookers, they will do the things their wife wont doo

[Ryan]

I'm not into the whole facials thing but I can see why it's in all the porn movies!

There's got to be a money shot of some sort...

[SCORE-Cash]

I have the same issue, as most of the posts. I don't like to see guys on camera at all.

I'm the one that should be with the model! I'm the one that should be featured on all porn movies...

But, you need a guy to have an xxx movie.

Concerning, cum shots to the face. Yeap, it's a power trip, control situation. Would I do it, to someone that I care about? Hell NO! I wouldn't want her to suck on my cum and then have to kiss her....

Side note: Anyone see the Soprano episode, where Tony told the hooker that he wouldn't want Carmela, the mother of his children going down on him?

Now with a model... this is the way I see it... The face is the one item that differentiates one girl from the other and to see a girl sucking on cock or getting a cum-blast is the most memorable memory I'm going to have of the experience.

If all we see is a Pipe-Shot, all we can differentiate is pubic hair from one model to the other... oh color of skin, fatter lips, but eventually don't they all look alike?

[SCORE-Cash]

Originally Posted by docholly

I always thought people did facial shots (faked or real) in porn because it was impossible to see the chick swallowing the cum and this way the set or video has proof of a happy ending.

This isn't the reason.

Actually most models don't want to swallow or have a guy cum inside her pussy.

We did a video series for 40somethingmag.com and a video named Cum Sucking MILFs and it was actually hard getting models to swallow on camera.

I'm sure someone who specializes on this niche can provide more info. I have seen models complain about facials, but they simply won't last in the LA porn scene.

We specialize in Big Tits, so the cum shot to the tits, is all we require of most models.

[stuveltje]

mmm reading over this thread (and asking her girlfriends again) they think the same, all girlfriends i know feel like it is an "dominating thing" but their guys not.........so guys and girls think different about this, most girls will say domination thing, still i think a guy can see it in a girls face if she likes it or not, or they have to be good actresses, which we know from the pornsites we promoot oke my friends will be good actresses also because 80% of my girlsfriends dont like facials, but will alow their guys to do it, thats BULLSHIT, btw i told them the same

[walrus]

If I'm viewing porn, I hate facials. When actually having sex, about the only time I'm into facials is if the sex is public and then I admit it's a domination / humiliation type of thing.