Jim's Wife Victoria Has Passed Away - Page 5

GonZo · 2008-06-08, 11:28 AM

Sorry Ive just heard about this.
I know she will be missed.

quest · 2008-06-12, 01:03 AM

Jim, as with my sister's death to cancer, I know how hard that last month truely is.

My most sincere condolences to you Jim, and to all that love her.

Ben

Tanker · 2008-06-12, 05:42 PM

Jim, Myself and Ellisa wish you and your family all the best.

It is sad when you lose someone close to you but to know she isn't in pain anymore is a truly happy moment too.

I wish you all the best my friend! We will all be here when you return. Take your time!

Tanker

xxxjay · 2008-06-12, 09:37 PM

Oh fuck Jim. That's terrible. Stay stong man.

If there is anything I can do to help, just let me know.

Jay

spookyx · 2008-06-14, 11:04 AM

Jim I am so sorry. I know how hard this is

StaceyJo · 2008-06-16, 12:45 AM

Oh my god, that is so shocking... condolence to Jim's and his family... this is so sad...

Jim · 2008-06-16, 11:21 AM

Thanks a lot again guys. This thread and the "Moment of Silence" thread has meant so much to me. I do sneak in and look at them everyday. Also thank you to those that have sent cards with checks for the Humane Society and just donated straight to them.

I have to admit that I have been on a bender for the last 2 weeks. The problem with me and a bender is...I really don' care for the taste of alcohol.

But, I have gotten used to Johnny Walker Blue.

Every night I feel like I will be ready for real work the next day and then when I wake up, I see thinks of Vickie's and I just go back into a depression. I am trying to come back but it is so hard. Just having the simple routine of coming in my office in the morning and having Vickie yell up coffee is ready not happening anymore, rips me apart.

I am so lucky that my sister in law has decided to stay here for as long as I want her to. I really am bad at taking care of animals and as you all know, "we have dogs". For the past 3-1/2 months, she has been our angel. And, somehow I don't think I will ever be able to repay her for all she has done. Of course free room and board and some cash has to help.

The best part is that she is 100% Lesbian so her and I staying with each other doesn't make it weird to anyone in our family.

Our children are doing OK. A couple of them are taking it really hard and are making some bad decisions. But, I think I may have stopped that.

Anyway, I am still going to take some time to get back to normal. Construction has started on our bar room where Vickie's Bike will hang from the wall forever. I am beginning construction on my living room sometime today..I think.

I do feel lucky because there are so many people that never find the love of their life. I have and now she is gone

But, I had her for over 20 years. I will never be in a real relationship again because nobody will ever be able to compare to my wonderful wife. Not saying I won't go out on dates..just no real relationships.

Ms Naughty · 2008-06-16, 09:21 PM

Ah Jim, my heart just breaks for you.

I don't think there are any rules for grieving. Just do what you gotta do and take as long as you need. We're all thinking of you.

sue-fl · 2008-06-16, 10:49 PM

Sorry it's so hard on your Jim.

There is no right or wrong way to grieve, and everybody does it different.

Your loss is a really hard one, I wish I had magic words but I don't. I hope with time your heart won't hurt as bad.

terry · 2008-06-16, 11:23 PM

My deepest sympathies to Jim and the family. I am really sorry to hear this news.

rageinthe813 · 2008-06-16, 11:59 PM

My heart goes out to him and his family

Thomas · 2008-06-27, 08:38 AM

I know I am almost a month late but somehow I missed this sad thread...

I am so sorry to hear about the love of your life.

F**K I hate cancer, took my mom away last year.

Regards
Thomas

BOONESTOONS · 2008-07-07, 12:33 AM

Just saw this thread. I'm so sorry Jim, Greenie. Prayers and hope atcha.

Jim · 2008-07-08, 05:20 PM

Thank you everyone. I really do appreciate this thread. But, now that I am trying to move on, this is a reminder.

I hope nobody minds but I am going to close the thread now.
Thank you again....

2008-06-12, 01:03 AM	#102
quest Trying is the first step towards failure Join Date: Sep 2004 Location: North of the Motor City, MI. Posts: 122	Jim, as with my sister's death to cancer, I know how hard that last month truely is. My most sincere condolences to you Jim, and to all that love her. Ben __________________ SinSexual Porn

2008-06-12, 05:42 PM	#103
Tanker I'm going to the backseat of my car with the woman I love, and I won't be back for TEN MINUTES Join Date: Sep 2005 Posts: 84	Jim, Myself and Ellisa wish you and your family all the best. It is sad when you lose someone close to you but to know she isn't in pain anymore is a truly happy moment too. I wish you all the best my friend! We will all be here when you return. Take your time! Tanker __________________ Kickstart your webmaster program

2008-06-12, 09:37 PM	#104
xxxjay You can now put whatever you want in this space :) Join Date: Apr 2003 Location: atlanta Posts: 1,787	Oh fuck Jim. That's terrible. Stay stong man. If there is anything I can do to help, just let me know. Jay __________________ Circle Of Violence

2008-06-16, 12:45 AM	#106
StaceyJo The only guys who wear Hawaiian shirts are gay guys and big fat party animals Join Date: Sep 2005 Posts: 172	Oh my god, that is so shocking... condolence to Jim's and his family... this is so sad... __________________

2008-06-16, 09:21 PM	#108
Ms Naughty old enough to be Grandma Scrotum Join Date: Aug 2003 Location: Australia Posts: 1,408	Ah Jim, my heart just breaks for you. I don't think there are any rules for grieving. Just do what you gotta do and take as long as you need. We're all thinking of you. __________________ Promote Bright Desire

2008-06-08, 11:28 AM	#101
GonZo You can now put whatever you want in this space :) Join Date: Apr 2003 Location: Atlanta,Ga Posts: 893	Sorry Ive just heard about this. I know she will be missed.

2008-06-14, 11:04 AM	#105
spookyx Kodak Ghosts Run Amok Join Date: Apr 2003 Location: Hobbs End Posts: 1,718	Jim I am so sorry. I know how hard this is

2008-06-16, 11:21 AM	#107
Jim Banned Join Date: Aug 2003 Location: Mohawk, New York Posts: 19,477	Thanks a lot again guys. This thread and the "Moment of Silence" thread has meant so much to me. I do sneak in and look at them everyday. Also thank you to those that have sent cards with checks for the Humane Society and just donated straight to them. I have to admit that I have been on a bender for the last 2 weeks. The problem with me and a bender is...I really don' care for the taste of alcohol. But, I have gotten used to Johnny Walker Blue. Every night I feel like I will be ready for real work the next day and then when I wake up, I see thinks of Vickie's and I just go back into a depression. I am trying to come back but it is so hard. Just having the simple routine of coming in my office in the morning and having Vickie yell up coffee is ready not happening anymore, rips me apart. I am so lucky that my sister in law has decided to stay here for as long as I want her to. I really am bad at taking care of animals and as you all know, "we have dogs". For the past 3-1/2 months, she has been our angel. And, somehow I don't think I will ever be able to repay her for all she has done. Of course free room and board and some cash has to help. The best part is that she is 100% Lesbian so her and I staying with each other doesn't make it weird to anyone in our family. Our children are doing OK. A couple of them are taking it really hard and are making some bad decisions. But, I think I may have stopped that. Anyway, I am still going to take some time to get back to normal. Construction has started on our bar room where Vickie's Bike will hang from the wall forever. I am beginning construction on my living room sometime today..I think. I do feel lucky because there are so many people that never find the love of their life. I have and now she is gone But, I had her for over 20 years. I will never be in a real relationship again because nobody will ever be able to compare to my wonderful wife. Not saying I won't go out on dates..just no real relationships.

2008-06-16, 10:49 PM	#109
sue-fl You can now put whatever you want in this space :) Join Date: May 2005 Location: Florida Posts: 2,837	Sorry it's so hard on your Jim. There is no right or wrong way to grieve, and everybody does it different. Your loss is a really hard one, I wish I had magic words but I don't. I hope with time your heart won't hurt as bad.

2008-06-16, 11:23 PM	#110
terry You can now put whatever you want in this space :) Join Date: Apr 2004 Location: Montreal Posts: 5,883	My deepest sympathies to Jim and the family. I am really sorry to hear this news. __________________ Stop That 9 To 5 Go Green Grocery Store

2008-06-16, 11:59 PM	#111
rageinthe813 A woman is like beer. They look good, they smell good, and you'd step over your own mother just to get one! Join Date: Sep 2007 Posts: 56	My heart goes out to him and his family

2008-06-27, 08:38 AM	#112
Thomas With $10,000, we'd be millionaires! We could buy all kinds of useful things like ... love! Join Date: May 2004 Location: Stockholm, Sweden Posts: 319	I know I am almost a month late but somehow I missed this sad thread... I am so sorry to hear about the love of your life. F**K I hate cancer, took my mom away last year. Regards Thomas __________________ I like big boobs, do you?

2008-07-07, 12:33 AM	#113
BOONESTOONS Just because I don't care doesn't mean I don't understand! Join Date: Jun 2007 Posts: 94	Just saw this thread. I'm so sorry Jim, Greenie. Prayers and hope atcha. __________________ World's best adult cartoonist & blog writer! ICQ: 461356609 evolbaby@aol.com

2008-07-08, 05:20 PM	#114
Jim Banned Join Date: Aug 2003 Location: Mohawk, New York Posts: 19,477	Thank you everyone. I really do appreciate this thread. But, now that I am trying to move on, this is a reminder. I hope nobody minds but I am going to close the thread now. Thank you again....