Moby,
We have a dialer solution as well through GoodThinxx. If you want to go dialer on your foreign traffic, or simply geotarget the high paying countries.
Our foreign signups very rarely refund or cb either.
Probably cutting my throat here, but I have yet to have an adult webmaster do seriously well with the program on a large scale. Mostly because they tack it onto the whack and don't seperate out their traffic for those who have other interests.
In my experience in adult (retired co-founder of
www.MrSkin.com), trying to sidestep an adult surfer with anything other than adult content (i.e. music) is akin to trying to remove Bill Clinton from an intern. Nearly impossible.
One other thing I may have forgotten to mention, P2P is a terrific free porn finder. If someone were to slant a tour in such a way, well I'm just dreaming now. Hope to see you in the MP3Dollars program.
Maybe you will be the 1st adult webmaster sherpa to cross the media divide and create a strong stream of traffic from adult based sources.
Cheers,