Hello Hollowhorn,
There are some very good names listed above but I would certainly like the opportunity to earn your business as well.
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Please take a moment to look at our site and if you have a moment contact me directly, you might find it nice to have a specific point of contact with the host and while it may sound corny, I do care about my clients.
Good luck with your search.