Geirlur,
Thanks for the info.
There is no webmaster link on FEMJOY so that did not help and I have used the same email with ccbill since 2001 so don't understand why I did not receive the email.
Either way, it looks like it was a cluster fuck in the beginning that has been worked out so I guess I missed all that frustration
Sent off email to the one mentioned in the gfy thread. Fingers crossed.