Jim's Wife Victoria Has Passed Away

[Greenguy]

Jim's wife Vicky passed away this afternoon after year long battle against cancer.

Karen & I are on our way to be with Jim now and I will post more info once we get there.

Vicky wasn't just the wife of my best friend, she was also my friend, my wife's friend & a friend of our community. She will be deeply missed by anyone that knew her.

[ArtWilliams]

|sad| I am so sorry to hear that. Please pass on my sympathies to Jim.

[MrMaryLou]

Our deepest condolences to Jim and his family

[ponygirl]

oh that is so sad, I'm sorry to hear this. It's good that Jim has such good friends to be with him right now. My thoughts and prayers will be with you all.

[SheepGuy]

Very sorry to hear this. My deepest condolences.

[Bill]

Jim, my heart is aching.

[Emerald]

BlueBrit & I were shocked and saddened to hear that Victoria had passed away today. Just never know what to say in circumstances like this except our condolences for Jim and his family.

[plateman]

thats sad, my condolence goes out for jim and his family

[DangerDave]

Jim,

I know Vicky will be sorely missed by you your family and many other people.

My thoughts are with you and your family.

Dave

[cd34]

Jim and family, our thoughts are with you.

[Bobc01]

This is realy sad, my sincere condolences to Jim and his family.

Like the rest of the board and beyond, my thoughts are with you too.

[T Pat]

I'm sorry for your loss Jim and feel your pain

[KG Gary]

That's very sad news indeed. My condolences to you and your family, Jim.

[pc]

My toughts are with Jim and his family.

[docholly]

I am so sorry to hear this and will be sending loads of healing energy to the family and friends. If there is anything we can do, even the smallest thing, please let us know. (((HUGS))))

[Cleo]

Her journey in life ended much too soon but at least her suffering from this illness has ended. Vickie will live on forever in the memories of all who were lucky enough to have known her.

[CrazySy]

I am so sorry to hear that. My deepest condolences to Jim and his family.

[Simon]

I'm thinking of you, Jim, and I know how hard these days have been, and how hard it is to recover yourself from this. All good thoughts and wishes for you, and I'm glad to know you'll have good friends and family around you to help a little during this terrible time. My heart hurts thinking of your loss.


:(

[Licker4U]

I'm so sorry to hear this, my condolences to Jim and his family.

[Tekster]

Our condolences to you Jim and to your family. So sorry to hear that, you and your family are in our prayers.

[Toby]

Jim, my sincere condolences to you and your family.

[balls_deep]

my condolence goes out to jim and his family

[bluemoney]

Jim,
I’m deeply saddened to hear of the passing of your wife Vicky. I know from my time on this board you loved her very much. My deepest sympathy to you and your family.

[JackDaniel's]

I am so so so sorry to hear that :(

My sincere condolences to you and your family Jim

[Maj. Stress]

Sorry to hear of your loss Jim. You and your family our in my thoughts and prayers.

[Ms Naughty]

Jim, my heart does out to you and your family. My deepest condolences.

"And in the end, the love you take is equal to the love you make."

[Lemmy]

Very sad news, my deepest condolences to Jim and his family.

[Jeremy]

Jim: You & your family have my deepest condolences.

[Preacher]

I'm really sorry to hear this Jim, my condolences. |sad|

[murray]

Jim, my sincere condolences to you and your family at this time

[LD]

Very sad...my condolences

[dallasdeb]

Jim,
So sorry to hear of your loss. My condolences to you and your family
Debbie

[RawAlex]

My most sincere condolences to Jim and all his family, deepest sympathy to all.

[Twiceshy]

To Jim and his Family My deepest condolences. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

[walrus]

I am so sorry

[Jamdin]

My deepest condolences to Jim and his family.

[Mr Spock]

Sorry to hear this Jim , my condolences to you and your family

[Trev]

Very sorry to hear this news. My condolences to Jim and Victoria's family and friends, at their time of great loss.

[Buncha]

I'm so sorry Jim. Your family will be in my prayers tonight.

[matyko]

:(
My sincere condolences to you Jim and your family.

[darthsplitfoot]

So sorry to hear that. My families deepest sympathies and warmest wishes.

[stuveltje]

so sad to hear this... my sincere condolences to Jim and his family

[Star Man]

|sad| Oh my god....I'm sorry to hear that.

[lorsha]

My thoughts and prayers are with you Jim.

[Tuna]

Our sincere condolences to Jim and Family. Our prayers are with you

[SirMoby]

Jim, I'm so sorry to hear such news. Take care and if you need anything just ask.

[Rowdy]

Jim, we're so sad to hear the news about this. Our condolences to you and your family during this tough time!

[spacemanspiff]

I'm very sorry to hear news like this. My sincerest condolences to you Jim.

[FanTC]

My deepest condolences to you and your family, Jim.

[Tommy]

I am so sorry, I dont even know what to write

[Useless]

Jim - Sandy and I send you our warmest thoughts and deepest sympathies. You aided Vicky through her suffering. Now allow your friends, family and memories of her to aid you through yours.

- Mark & Sandy

[tigermom]

I am so so sorry. Be strong, Jim, and take the time to grieve. I know there's not much anyone can say or do to help right now - my deepest condolences to you and your family.

[JustRobert]

My thoughts are with you and your family.

[Ramster]

I am very sorry to hear this and can only imagine what Jim is going through. Best wishes to Jim and his family! RIP Vickie!

[RedCherry]

Jim, I'm so very sorry for your loss, and you and your family are in my prayers and thoughts thoughts in this time of sadness.

This is a Native American prayer I love very much, I hope it helps a bit.

I give you this one thought to keep-
I am with you still - I do not sleep.
I am a thousand winds that blow,
I am the diamond glints on snow.
I am the sunlight on ripened grain,
I am the gentle autum rain.
When you awaken in the morning's hush,
I am the swift, uplifting rush
of quiet birds circled flight.
I am the soft stars that shine at night.
Do not think of me as gone -
I am with you still - in each new dawn.

Vicky is just in another form, in another place, and her spirit will be with you always.

[LeRoy]

Jim,

My wife and I are very sorry for your loss. Our deepest sympathy to you and your family.

Tasha & LeRoy Rowland

[sue-fl]

I'm so sorry Jim, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family threw this sad time.

[MadHatter]

....so very sorry to hear of your loss Jim, and you will both be in my prayers.
Jim (MadHatter)

[HappySpanker]

Sincere regards and condolences for Jim and his family.

[bDok]

so sorry. My thoughts are with you Jim.

[Fonz]

So sorry to hear that Jim. My thoughts go out to you and your family...

[Mr Exotic]

I am very saddened to hear this, cancer is an evil monster which has taken my grandpa, and while my grandma has survived her cancer and is in remission, the costs on her body have made her a shell of her former self. Remember all the good times and fond memories and make sure to take care of yourself while you grieve the passing of your dear wife. Again I am very sorry and saddened to hear this, it hits pretty close to home for me personally.

[Toni KatVixen]

We so sorry to hear this Jim.

I had really enjoyed the brief time that I spent hanging with her years ago when she made it the goal to get me drunk. I had been looking forward repeating it. :(

May she be in a better place without the suffering.

[JohnnyR]

I am very sorry for your loss Jim. Please accept my sincere condoleances! My thoughts and sympathy go out to you and your family...

[Torn Rose]

Jim, Our best thoughts for you and everyone else, I enjoyed our time out with you and Vicki in Miami and will always think of her with a smile.

She will be missed.

[tickler]

Sorry about your lost Jim. My condolences are with you.

[James_HotMovies]

I am very sorry for Jim's loss, and all of our loss.

Please let me know if there is anything I can do.

[secretagentwilly]

Sorry to hear about this Jim...You and your family are in my thoughts...if there's anything like a memorial fund or any of that stuff, please post the info so I can contribute...

[selena]

I'm sorry to hear of your loss. Please accept my sincere condolences.

[ronnie]

Very sorry to hear. Our thoughts and prayers will be with you.

[RageCash-Ben]

May she rest in Peace. My sincere condolences Jim.

[papagmp]

Our hearts and prayers are Jim and his family.

[Smutferret]

My wife and I would like to express our deepest condolences to you, your family and friends. I lost one of my best friends to cancer this past year. He was just 38 years old and passed away shortly after the birth of his second child. His wife was devastated, they loved each other very much. I told her at his funeral that she made him very happy and it was true. I'm sure you made Vicky very happy.

[Jago Webcams.co]

Terrible news. Prayers for you and your family.

[nibbler]

It's never easy to lose a loved one. My deepest condolences to you and your family.

[DPD]

I am very sorry to hear this sad news. My deep condolence goes to Jim and his family!

[justbondage]

My condolences.

[SaucyPanties]

My condolence to Jim and his family in these dificult times.

[annie_cash]

I am so sorry to hear this. My condolences go for Jim and his family

[NY Jester]

JIm, I am so sorry for the loss of your wife. I know how hard the struggle had been and the fight she and you put forth against it. With a heavy heart my best wishes go out to you and your family.

[MrMaryLou]

Here is a link to Victoria's Obituary

http://www.herkimertelegram.com/obituaries/x572883912/Victoria-Francesca-Levita-Barnett

Also In lieu of flowers, as an expression of sympathy, please consider memorial contributions to the Herkimer County Humane Society. http://www.herkhumane.org/

[hashbury]

sorry jim
My condolences

[Mizz B]

My sincere condolences.

[bobsxxxmovies]

I recently lost My Mom to cancer. My sincere condolences.

[digifan]

My deepest condolences to Jim and his family..


I was in hospital again so couldn't respond earlier, I am sorry.

[JustRobert]

Thanks for the info MML

[docholly]

Here is a link to Victoria's Obituary

http://www.herkimertelegram.com/obituaries/x572883912/Victoria-Francesca-Levita-Barnett

Also In lieu of flowers, as an expression of sympathy, please consider memorial contributions to the Herkimer County Humane Society. http://www.herkhumane.org/

Can someone see a place on that Humane website to send donations? I looked all over it (made me even sadder) but couldn't find anything other than their hours and what they needed. I've tried calling them for the last hour and the line goes directly to busy. |cry|

[MrMaryLou]

There are a couple of numbers on the Obituary to contact about the donations.

[Jim]

I just wanted to stop by and thank everyone. When Vickie finally went, it was a relief to us all. During the last month, every waking moment was in pain.

I have no idea when I will post again :(
My heart is truly broken.:(

[SCORE-Cash]

Cancer is something very hard to deal with. Jim, wish you the best, I know this must be hard times for you.

[993TT]

Sorry to hear this news, for sure she is in a better place now. Our thoughts are with you.

[Evil Chris]

Jim, I'm very sad to receive this news. Victoria was a wonderful lady and I know she will be deeply missed by everyone who knew her.

My most sincere condolences go out to you and your family.

Chris

[DonX]

Our deepest condolences to Jim, his family and friends

[buttster]

I am so sorry to hear of your loss Jim, my heart goes out to you and your family

[Mcbethar]

We are very sorry. Our deepest condolences to Jim and his family

[Dravyk]

Wow. :(

Deepest condolences Jim from myself and my partner Electra.

Vicky was indeed one of the friendliest and warmest of people in this industry. And, along with yourself, a true pioneer of this industry. We won't let her memory fade.

Take care, good buddy.

Hary (Dravyk)

[D-man]

man no words for Jims loss can make this better - she was a sweetheart - My thoughts are with you Jim.

[Nickatilynx1]

My sincerest and deepest condolences.

[Anthony]

It's been years since I've thought of Jim and Victoria. Sometimes life does that, you lose communication with people. I wasn't close to either Jim or Victoria, but that didn't stop them both 10 years ago in Miami to reach out and talk to me about our industry, and give a noob advice.

I'm sorry for your loss Jim. For everyone's loss now that Victoria has passed on. My thoughts are with you, and your loved ones at this time.

[urb]

My condolences Jim. :(

[GonZo]

Sorry Ive just heard about this.
I know she will be missed.

[quest]

Jim, as with my sister's death to cancer, I know how hard that last month truely is.

My most sincere condolences to you Jim, and to all that love her.


Ben

[Tanker]

Jim, Myself and Ellisa wish you and your family all the best.

It is sad when you lose someone close to you but to know she isn't in pain anymore is a truly happy moment too.


I wish you all the best my friend! We will all be here when you return. Take your time!

Tanker

[xxxjay]

Oh fuck Jim. That's terrible. Stay stong man.

If there is anything I can do to help, just let me know.

Jay

[spookyx]

Jim I am so sorry. I know how hard this is :(

[StaceyJo]

Oh my god, that is so shocking... condolence to Jim's and his family... this is so sad...

[Jim]

Thanks a lot again guys. This thread and the "Moment of Silence" thread has meant so much to me. I do sneak in and look at them everyday. Also thank you to those that have sent cards with checks for the Humane Society and just donated straight to them.

I have to admit that I have been on a bender for the last 2 weeks. The problem with me and a bender is...I really don' care for the taste of alcohol. :) But, I have gotten used to Johnny Walker Blue. :)

Every night I feel like I will be ready for real work the next day and then when I wake up, I see thinks of Vickie's and I just go back into a depression. I am trying to come back but it is so hard. Just having the simple routine of coming in my office in the morning and having Vickie yell up coffee is ready not happening anymore, rips me apart.

I am so lucky that my sister in law has decided to stay here for as long as I want her to. I really am bad at taking care of animals and as you all know, "we have dogs". For the past 3-1/2 months, she has been our angel. And, somehow I don't think I will ever be able to repay her for all she has done. Of course free room and board and some cash has to help. :) The best part is that she is 100% Lesbian so her and I staying with each other doesn't make it weird to anyone in our family.

Our children are doing OK. A couple of them are taking it really hard and are making some bad decisions. But, I think I may have stopped that.

Anyway, I am still going to take some time to get back to normal. Construction has started on our bar room where Vickie's Bike will hang from the wall forever. I am beginning construction on my living room sometime today..I think.

I do feel lucky because there are so many people that never find the love of their life. I have and now she is gone :( But, I had her for over 20 years. I will never be in a real relationship again because nobody will ever be able to compare to my wonderful wife. Not saying I won't go out on dates..just no real relationships.

[Ms Naughty]

Ah Jim, my heart just breaks for you.

I don't think there are any rules for grieving. Just do what you gotta do and take as long as you need. We're all thinking of you.

[sue-fl]

Sorry it's so hard on your Jim.

There is no right or wrong way to grieve, and everybody does it different.

Your loss is a really hard one, I wish I had magic words but I don't. I hope with time your heart won't hurt as bad. |thumb

[terry]

My deepest sympathies to Jim and the family. I am really sorry to hear this news.

[rageinthe813]

My heart goes out to him and his family

[Thomas]

I know I am almost a month late but somehow I missed this sad thread...

I am so sorry to hear about the love of your life.

F**K I hate cancer, took my mom away last year.

Regards
Thomas

[BOONESTOONS]

Just saw this thread. I'm so sorry Jim, Greenie. Prayers and hope atcha.

[Jim]

Thank you everyone. I really do appreciate this thread. But, now that I am trying to move on, this is a reminder.

I hope nobody minds but I am going to close the thread now.
Thank you again....