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Jim
2005-08-23, 10:10 AM
It's not my business to say why but, there has been a family tragedy in Greenies family.

If you have questions for him, either wait or see if MrMaryLou can help. This will be for a while, I suspect.

Surfn
2005-08-23, 10:14 AM
Let me know if I can help in any way.

jaYMan
2005-08-23, 10:15 AM
Anything I can do let me know.

All our thoughts are with you GG & K.

Useless
2005-08-23, 11:18 AM
Sandy and I are here for you.

RawAlex
2005-08-23, 11:33 AM
Anything you need... I am there to do it.

Ramster
2005-08-23, 11:44 AM
Anything needed we can all help with any questions and such.

Torn Rose
2005-08-23, 12:13 PM
Love to you all from us, need anything just ask.

sue-fl
2005-08-23, 12:21 PM
This is vey sad to hear. My thoughts and prayers are with Greenguy and his family.

Rocco
2005-08-23, 12:48 PM
very sad - lemme know if I anything can be done

plateman
2005-08-23, 12:48 PM
sad to hear...

CrazySy
2005-08-23, 12:53 PM
Sad to hear GG, might not be able to offer much but please let me know if there is anything I can do for you.

Emerald
2005-08-23, 12:54 PM
Thoughts and prayers to you and K, I am here if you need me. *hugs*

docholly
2005-08-23, 01:21 PM
:( meesa sorry to hear there are problemos in Greenie-land. We're sending white light & good wishes to you. |blowkiss|

spookyx
2005-08-23, 01:26 PM
my thoughts are with you greenie

Prawnie
2005-08-23, 01:28 PM
Im very sorry to hear this. My thoughts are with you GG and your family

ArtWilliams
2005-08-23, 01:36 PM
Jim ... send GG our thoughts and prays.

juggernaut
2005-08-23, 01:57 PM
Hopping everything turns out ok. Best of luck to you and your family. Jugg..

Special "Ed"
2005-08-23, 02:00 PM
I hope everything is brighter soon ;-)

Allfetish
2005-08-23, 02:04 PM
:(

Boogie
2005-08-23, 02:27 PM
praying for ya buddy, wish i could help more than that. :(

selena
2005-08-23, 03:17 PM
I know there is likely nothing that I can do, but if I can, say the word. Please know that you and yours are in my thoughts and prayers.

Greenguy
2005-08-23, 03:27 PM
Fuck, this is a tough post.

My step-son Ryan took his life sometime last night. He just turned 16 last month.

I don't know what else to say.

MindyBlingBucks
2005-08-23, 03:32 PM
:( My thoughts are with you and your family.

Nancy Gamma
2005-08-23, 03:35 PM
I am so sorry to hear that.

It's tuff to deal with suicide.
If you need to talk even though We don't know each other very well...

The father of my two sons took his life when they were 10 and 11 and I had to hang in there for a while.

Trev
2005-08-23, 03:36 PM
Oh my, so very sorry to hear that. My best to you and especially your wife at this time, Greenguy. Stay strong.

TopbucksTrixxxi
2005-08-23, 03:39 PM
My deepest sympathies to your family and you Greenguy. I don't think we can find words to comfort you, but try to keep strong and if you need anything, at any hour, we are all here for you.

spookyx
2005-08-23, 03:42 PM
My deepest sympathies to you and your family


stay strong.


spookyx

juggernaut
2005-08-23, 03:46 PM
Stay strong your wife will need that. We are all wishing you the best.

JohnnyRS
2005-08-23, 03:48 PM
Very sorry to hear that, greenie. My thoughts are with you and hope your family can find the strength to get through with the pain.

Cleo
2005-08-23, 03:54 PM
I'm so sorry to hear this. :(

My thoughts go out to you and Karen.

Platinum Bryan
2005-08-23, 04:05 PM
I'm sorry to hear that, My thoughts are with you and your family.

urb
2005-08-23, 04:05 PM
My condolences to you and Karen.

.

Lori_Anderson
2005-08-23, 04:12 PM
thoughts and prayers are with you and your family....

Jel
2005-08-23, 04:25 PM
Man I am so sorry. Be as strong as you can, when you can, and my prayers & condolences go out to you both.

DangerDave
2005-08-23, 04:42 PM
GG our thoughts and cares are with you and Karen ...

DD

cosmiccat
2005-08-23, 04:59 PM
My deepest sympathies. :(

emmanuelle
2005-08-23, 05:08 PM
My sincere condolences to you and yours

Sammy4u-Brett
2005-08-23, 05:13 PM
We are sorry to hear about your loss GreenGuy and Karen. Our sincere condolences to you and your family.

Hunter_ST
2005-08-23, 05:17 PM
We're keeping you and your family in our prayers.

ponygirl
2005-08-23, 05:19 PM
oh I just read this and it broke my heart

I know it's not much but my condolences and thoughts are with you and your family

Ponygirl

digifan
2005-08-23, 05:28 PM
I am so sorry to hear that.. you are in my prayers and your family :(

Linkster
2005-08-23, 05:37 PM
GG - my thoughts and prayers are with you and Karen - I am here for you if you need anything at all as you always know - just call.

Wenchy
2005-08-23, 05:41 PM
My sincerest condolences to you and your family M & K. We'll light a candle for you and send good energy your way. Be as well as you can, and remember you have a huge extended "family" here if you need us.

ponyman
2005-08-23, 05:42 PM
My thoughts and best wishes for you and your family.

Robbo
2005-08-23, 06:17 PM
Greenguy so very sorry to hear of your loss. Best wishes to your family. And I`m another webmaster barely a half hour away from you should you need to call one out. Be strong.

amber438
2005-08-23, 06:33 PM
I am so damned sorry to hear this terrible news
Our thoughts and prayers go out to you and yours in this time of need!

Stever
2005-08-23, 06:38 PM
Very, very sorry to hear that.

ClickBuster
2005-08-23, 06:55 PM
GreenGuy, I'm sorry for your sorrow. Please accept my deepest condolences.

XPorn
2005-08-23, 07:08 PM
My sincere condolences.

Anothers
2005-08-23, 07:16 PM
My condolences.

madleinx
2005-08-23, 07:19 PM
Oh Greenguy I am so sorry. Deepest condolences to you and your family. If you need anything, even just a sympathetic ear, please let me know.

f69j69b
2005-08-23, 07:19 PM
Words always seem so inadequate at times like this my prayers are with you and your family

Rowdy
2005-08-23, 07:26 PM
So sorry to hear the sad news GG.
We wish the best for you and yours through this hard time!

terry
2005-08-23, 07:35 PM
Hard post makes for a hard reply. Sorry to hear the news GG. As many others have offered, so do I, anything I can do let me know. Hugs and kisses bro.

bootybanditinc
2005-08-23, 07:39 PM
My condolences. Stay strong

Regards

Sumrpal
2005-08-23, 07:48 PM
My heartfelt condolences to you and your family. I am so very sorry to hear this. We went through this with my brother-in-law not too many years ago. It is very much a tragedy.

jennym
2005-08-23, 08:04 PM
Our thoughts and prayers are with you, your wife, and the rest of the family. Sadly, our family has dealt with suicide as well. It is always tough. Just lean on each other.

As everyone else has said, ANYTHING that is needed, just ask.

GunnCat
2005-08-23, 08:37 PM
I'm so sorry GG. Best to yours bro.

CelticTiger
2005-08-23, 08:41 PM
I am so sorry to hear of your families loss. My sincere condolences.

koolkat
2005-08-23, 08:50 PM
Wow! That is shocking to hear! I have a step-daughter and niece around that age, who live with me, and I know that age is a tumultuous time in their lives. I wish you and your family the best (if that is even possible right now) and will keep you in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.

TheButcher
2005-08-23, 09:13 PM
Greenguy my deepest condolences, I'll pray for your family's loss as a father and concerned individual.

docholly
2005-08-23, 09:38 PM
after reading gg's message, I hugged my son extra today and had a short conversation with him about feelings and how he could sometimes feel lonely or strange or sad but that he should come and talk to me or someone who loves him rather than keep it in. Gives us the opportunity to open a dialogue.

So thank you GG for sharing this extremely hard and painful moment with us. We will be sending postive energy and thoughts your way.

JoeBlack
2005-08-23, 09:50 PM
I'm sorry to hear about your loss. My prayers are with you and your family.

spacemanspiff
2005-08-23, 10:21 PM
I'm so sorry to hear that Greenguy. I can't imagine what a hard thing that must be. Please accept my condolences and know that all of our thoughts will be with you and your family.

tjchuck
2005-08-23, 11:21 PM
I offer my deepest and most sincere condolences to you and your family, GG.

binxgook
2005-08-23, 11:34 PM
:(

Sinistress
2005-08-24, 12:15 AM
I'm so sorry to hear that, lots of thoughts & care your way...

Ms Naughty
2005-08-24, 12:35 AM
Condolences and deepest sympathy from Luke and I
- KarenJ

adamneve
2005-08-24, 02:40 AM
Sorry to hear that Greenie :(

Meat
2005-08-24, 02:50 AM
Greeny, im in shock, numb, cant imagine what you, karen and family must be going through now, sympathies and condolences, u guys are in my thoughts:((

flyeruk
2005-08-24, 03:18 AM
Really sorry to hear... stay strong for each other.

Lisa.

ScreaM
2005-08-24, 03:38 AM
I'm so sorry to hear that Greenguy, be strong. I know it must be tough what you're going through. Words are poor comforters i know but that's all i've got. :(

Thomas
2005-08-24, 04:22 AM
I´m so sorry!

/Thomas

stuveltje
2005-08-24, 04:39 AM
So sad to hear. My sincere condolences to you and yours....


Ingrid

kalle7
2005-08-24, 04:47 AM
Sorry to hear about the horrible news GG. My condolences to you and your family. Stay strong!

buttster
2005-08-24, 05:18 AM
GG I am so sorry for you and your wife, it brings back very bad memories of what I went through a few years back with the same type of loss, all I can say is stay close and I mean close to your wife. All I can say from my experience is spend lots of time with the mom and just listen and listen and be there for her. All your friends and associates are here for you if you need anything!!!

Rojo
2005-08-24, 05:33 AM
I'm really sorry to hear that... My deepest condolences to you and you family, GG...

T Pat
2005-08-24, 05:51 AM
oh fuck, I know your hurting bad, I can't think of anything tougher for a mother, I am so sorry, you got to be tuff for the little lady greenman but you also need to lean on friends for awhile to get through this, if there is anything I can do please let me know

Simon
2005-08-24, 06:31 AM
You're in our positive thoughts too. We wish you the strength to help your family through this time, and the hope that the widespread extended family that surrounds you here will help you renew your strength when you need more.

Simon

Tubey
2005-08-24, 06:55 AM
GG,
I can't imagine what you and your wife must be going through....but if there is anything we can do to help....please say the word....
We are here for you and your family.

Pusher
2005-08-24, 07:54 AM
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family...

Don & Barbra

Rocco
2005-08-24, 07:55 AM
My sincere condolences

Greenguy
2005-08-24, 08:02 AM
Thank you to everyone that's posted & even thought their well-wishes.

Don't send flowers & for the love of |buddy| don't send any more fucking food (I forgot how much food appears at your house when someone passes)

We are going to set up a donation to the local cancer hospital & I'll post the info here when I know it. I think we're going to gather the money ourselves & then buy a plaque on their wall or something like that.

Erick G
2005-08-24, 08:56 AM
My deepest sympathies to you and your family!

Kenny B!
2005-08-24, 10:40 AM
I'm so sorry to hear this news GG, my sincere condolences ... stay strong!

Pornopat
2005-08-24, 11:13 AM
Fuck, this is a tough post.

My step-son Ryan took his life sometime last night. He just turned 16 last month.

I don't know what else to say.

I am sorry to hear this. I wish you strenght.

Preacher
2005-08-24, 11:50 AM
My deepest sympathies.

One of my best employees tried to take her life Monday night, fortunately someone found her and intervened.

I know how painful this has been for me, I cannot even begin to imagine how you must be feeling.

Again, my thoughts are with you.

Dravyk
2005-08-24, 04:03 PM
GG, sincere condolences from myself and Electra at this sad time.

aphrophoto
2005-08-24, 04:11 PM
Very sorry to hear about your loss - our thoughts go out to you and your family

JohnnyR
2005-08-24, 04:55 PM
My sincere condolences to you and your family

dirtyjumbo
2005-08-24, 05:21 PM
I'm really sorry to hear about your step-son Greenguy, my sincere condolences :(

ronnie
2005-08-24, 11:02 PM
Very sorry to hear.. never know what to say at times like these.

We will be thinking of you and your family...

ronnie

lelahosting
2005-08-25, 01:59 AM
i'm so sorry to hear that GG

we are all here for you but i know there really isnt anything anyone can say to make you feel better...its just too sad :(

ArtWilliams
2005-08-25, 09:19 AM
This is so sad. My thoughts are with you and your family. ---art

serenity
2005-08-25, 09:50 AM
Greenguy,
My heart goes out to you and your wife. You guys have had a rough year. Take care of yourselves and know that we are all thinking of you.

Sarah_Jayne
2005-08-25, 12:51 PM
My deepest condolences. I also know what you mean about people bringing food. I didn'thave to cook for about a month when my husband died but I got sick of pies, etc.

*hugs* to you both.

gigi
2005-08-25, 12:58 PM
Oh, GG, I am sooo sorry to hear of your family's loss.

Please take care and accept the help of family and friends at this time....they are there for you.

Sending healing thoughts to you and your family during this difficult time.

Fonz
2005-08-25, 02:08 PM
So sorry to hear that GG. My thoughts are with you and Karen... :(

wildgirl
2005-08-25, 04:52 PM
sorry to hear that, I hope they will be brighter soon

ecchi
2005-08-25, 05:44 PM
As I have never lost a son or stepson I cannot know how much you and your wife must be hurting, so I know this must hurt you more than anything has ever hurt me in my life. You both have my sympathy and thoughts, and so do the rest of your family and your stepson's friends.

I will remember him in my prayers.

Smutferret
2005-08-25, 06:17 PM
GG, I'm SO sorry for your loss. You and your wife and your family must be in complete shock. Please take time with your family to greive and don't worry about anything else.

Regards,
SF

lassiter
2005-08-25, 08:01 PM
Sorry I havent' been here for a week and just heard the sad news.

It's all been said better already, but my heartfelt sympathy to the both of you and everyone else who loved and cared about Ryan.

MorganGrayson
2005-08-25, 08:14 PM
My husband and I send our deepest condolences to you and yours, Greenguy. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Newton - XXXAmi
2005-08-25, 08:22 PM
My deepest and sincerest condolences to you and your family

Red
2005-08-25, 08:26 PM
I'm so sorry to hear this.
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your wife.

Lisa
2005-08-25, 08:28 PM
So sorry to hear Greeny. Stay strong.

Nick@ilynx
2005-08-25, 08:30 PM
My deepest and sincerest condolences , my friend , to you and your family.

LindaMight
2005-08-25, 08:32 PM
I am so so sorry. My prayers are with you and your family.

Linda

SiMpLe
2005-08-25, 08:45 PM
This is horrible GG - I'm speechless and very sorry for your loss. Stay strong my friend.

SykkBoy
2005-08-25, 08:53 PM
My deepest condolences to you and your family.

pornodoggy
2005-08-25, 09:04 PM
Good thoughts and prayers heading your way ... good luck in these tought times.

GonZo
2005-08-25, 10:18 PM
So sorry to hear GG. I wish there was something I could do other than say I am sending good thoughts your way.

Bestat
2005-08-25, 10:50 PM
I am so sorry to read of your loss M, my prayers to you and your family. :(

TE
2005-08-25, 11:12 PM
My deepest condolonces to you and your family Greenguy.

TheEnforcer

Peaches
2005-08-25, 11:12 PM
Fuck, this is a tough post.

My step-son Ryan took his life sometime last night. He just turned 16 last month.

I don't know what else to say.
Well shit. You may not know this but my son committed suicide 5 months ago today. I wish I could give you some soothing words, but it's pure hell. He was 21.

If you or you wife want to talk or need some info (there is an excellent Parents of Suicide mailing list I'm a member of which has seriously saved my sanity) please let me know.

I will give you some advice my father gave me that at first made no sense but in hindsight was very wise - it helps people to help you. Let them.

My prayers are with you. The pain is something thankfully no one else will understand unless it's happened to them.

PR_Tom
2005-08-25, 11:23 PM
So very sorry to hear of this :( Deepest condolences to you and yours.

LadyB
2005-08-25, 11:25 PM
GG - I just now heard about this and I can't tell you how very sorry I am for your loss. :(:(

My thoughts are with you and your family.

MrYum
2005-08-25, 11:31 PM
wow...absolutely stunning :(

I'm so sorry Greenie..as others have mentioned...ANY thing you need, let us know...

The Other Steve
2005-08-26, 01:05 AM
Marie and I just heard the news GG and we want to send you our condolences too.

The only thing to do at times like this is to remember the good times the whole family had together and hold those times in your heart and never let them go.

Steve and Marie

Hooper
2005-08-26, 01:12 AM
I'm so sorry for you and mrs. greenguy's loss. I'm so sorry man.. so sorry. I can't imagine how you must be feeling.

sarettah
2005-08-26, 01:19 AM
GG, Jen and my thoughts are with you and your family tonight.

nottslad
2005-08-26, 01:24 AM
Although I dont know you other than through here and even then for only a few months, I cannot even contemplate what this must feel like - but please be comforted that our thoughts are with you. Be strong big guy.

ryanlanane
2005-08-26, 01:40 AM
My condolences go out to you and all of your loved ones... Many prayers your way !

Bare
2005-08-26, 08:45 AM
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Please take care of you and yours.

bobbiekey
2005-08-26, 09:21 AM
Having lost both a brother and my best friend the same way two years ago, I feel your pain GG. You are in my thoughts and prayers. My heart felt condolences to you and your family.

Extreme Nate
2005-08-26, 01:05 PM
We send our deepest condolences GG to you and your family

Extreme Robyn
2005-08-26, 01:15 PM
My thoughts and prayers will be with you

pornrex
2005-08-26, 03:15 PM
Mere words cannot express my deepest heart felt condolensces.

May |buddy| comfort you and your family in this time of pain.

iggysick
2005-08-26, 03:32 PM
OMG! GG my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family tonight. I simply can't find words... :(

Raven
2005-08-26, 05:27 PM
Oh, my...this is awful news for you and your family....so much for you this year, GG.....

Kath
2005-08-26, 06:36 PM
Just got back in town - been AFK. So sorry to hear the news. Burtros and I send our deepest condolences to you and Karen. So sorry to hear it.

Osiris
2005-08-26, 10:09 PM
Sorry to hear that man.. :(

Micha
2005-08-27, 01:36 AM
I would like to express my condolensces to you and family.

domtheboy
2005-08-27, 04:26 AM
That's a horrible thing to happen GG, not much I can say that will help but all my best wishes go to you, try and stay strong while you deal with it :(

susanna
2005-08-27, 08:30 AM
Thinking of you and your family greenguy! Suicide is one thing that should never happen. Living longer then your children is another!

I hope that there is some way to be at peace with his choice although I know it will be a long time before you can do that. I have a 16 year old son who seems to place a lot of stress on himself, this serves as a reminder for me to check in with him on things as best a mom can. Thats really all we can do as parents, kids will do as they wish with their lives...good or bad.

All I could think of was that this really stinks for all of you but mostly for this young boy that will not know all of lifes pleasures!

Hope you all stay strong and God Bless!

Susanna

Greenguy
2005-08-28, 12:19 AM
Thank you to everyone that came into town, posted, emailed, sent cards, flowers, food...even to those of you that were too emotional to do anything.....it is all very appreciated.

I did come to realize that I don't co-workers or even friends here on the board & in the webmaster community. Karen & I have another family here & we thank you from the bottom of our hearts.

swedguy
2005-08-28, 05:29 AM
What a tragedy... can't find any other words for it :(
My deepest condolences to you and your wife.

Mr. Blue
2005-08-28, 05:59 AM
GG, words can't express how deeply sorry I am for your loss. I send my heartfelt sympathy to your family during this difficult time. Stay strong.

ynuahayt
2005-08-28, 08:58 AM
I have very mixed feelings when it comes to life/death so I will just say this:

I'm sorry for your loss.

Sodo
2005-08-28, 10:29 AM
I am truly sorry to hear that...my deepest condolences to you and your family!

I'm sure all of us understand it'll take time to recover enough from such tragedy to get back to work...take time off and spend it with your family...they're the ones that'll truly support you in such a situation. I've never experienced such a tragedy, but when I had to leave my house, sell my car, and get a regular job I found out who and what really matters....family!

So go feel the love and support from your family!
Kind regards
Sodo

Lunatic
2005-08-28, 01:57 PM
I am sorry and saddened to hear about you and your family's loss. My sympathy goes out to you and your family.

Eric

Bill
2005-08-28, 02:11 PM
I don't know what to say.

Which is strange, because I rarely have a problem expressing my opinion.

But this is beyond expression.

I'm one of those for which this is too emotional to say or do anything.

MadMax
2005-08-28, 02:24 PM
Sorry for your loss GG, warm wishes to you and your family.

cherri
2005-08-28, 03:06 PM
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Evil Chris
2005-08-28, 03:31 PM
Sad news, and I'm very very sorry to hear it.

ColetteX
2005-08-28, 05:00 PM
This must be the hardest thing to ever have to go through. Please know that you are in the thoughts and prayers of many.

seven
2005-08-28, 08:18 PM
My deepest sympathies. :( Stay strong !

furrygirl
2005-08-31, 01:03 AM
I'm sorry to hear about that, Greenguy.

Suicide is such a tough one on friends and families, because it never makes sense. A childhood friend of mine killed himself about 3 years ago. The only "explanation" anyone could make out of it was that he was probably having a hard time coming out gay. Trying to find answers and logic with suicides could drive you crazy if you let it. Sometimes in life, some things will never make sense.

Don't feel obligated to "stay strong", cry and scream and get things out if it will make you feel better.

the New Shemp
2005-08-31, 05:01 AM
my sincere condolences to you and your family, GreenGuy.

GeeDee
2005-08-31, 06:11 AM
My condolences to Greenguy and family..... And I wish you all the strength needed in these times.
If you need help in any way... wil be the there for ya!

Verbal
2005-08-31, 01:32 PM
I'm very sorry to hear about your loss, GG. My deepest condolences to you and your family.

JoeA
2005-08-31, 07:09 PM
Greenguy..

You and I may agree to disagree 100% of the time. but I'm sorry to hear the news of your loss and even sorrier that it was through that prick Aoen hijacking a thread elsewhere flaming me for a change :)

You have my deepest sympathies old sparring partner..

boneless
2005-08-31, 09:10 PM
my condolences to you and your family, saying an extra prayer tonight.

romeoboi
2005-09-01, 03:52 AM
I dont know what to say with these things... except I hope you get through it alright and of course my condolences.

:(

Carrie
2005-09-03, 04:42 PM
GG my deepest condolences to you and Karen. I can't even imagine what you guys are going through. Sending prayers your way.

Bell
2005-09-03, 07:27 PM
such sad news for Karen (and you) to have lost yet another of her children to suicide in less than 5 years...

prayers go out to you both...

~Bell

Bjorn
2005-09-20, 05:24 AM
I must say i am abit suprised to see that so many here are religious with these prayers and all...

Anyway, i dont know you greenguy, but that situation you are in i wouldnt wish for anyone, such a feeling of...helplessness..Condolences from me as well

LindaMight
2005-09-20, 08:38 PM
I must say i am abit suprised to see that so many here are religious with these prayers and all...


We may be in the adult business but many of us do believe and even pray. It's not about religion, it's about belief and as you, we all wish in some way we could help take some of GG's pain away. Prayers can't hurt.

Thinking of you Greenie...
Linda

HornyHeather
2005-09-20, 08:46 PM
Wishing you both the best GG, I was floored when I read this...My deepest sympathy

Bell, I remember also. sad very sad

backoffbitch
2005-09-21, 09:59 AM
Holy crap greenie. I'm so sorry. My thoughts are with you and your wife.

I cannot fathom losing my son, let alone like this. While he's only 11 months old it still scares the heck out of me that there could be times where he could do something like this later in life. I just hope he can come to me before going that far and ending his life.